Change is the point. It's what we seek to do to the world around us.
Change, actual change, is hard work. And changing our own minds is the most difficult place to start.
It's also the only place to start.
It's hard to find the leverage to change the way you see the world, hard to pull on your thoughtstraps. But it's urgent.
"A great many people think they are thinking when they are merely rearranging their prejudices…" William James
No one knows the right answer, no one knows precisely what will happen, no one can produce the desired future, on demand.
Some people are better at guessing than others, but not by much.
The people who are supposed to know rejected Harry Potter, Tracy Chapman and the Beatles. The people who are supposed to know sell stocks just before they go up, and give us rules of thumb that don't pan out.
If you mistakenly believe that there's someone who knows, you're likely to decide that whoever that person it is, it's not you.
And if it's not you, what a great reason to hesitate.
In fact, the gap isn't between the people who know and those that don't. It's between the people who show up with their best work, and those that hold back.
This is, of course, the opposite of,
"Touch it, you can make it better."
What's the default where you work?
Pema Chodron's new book is out this month. I was rendered speechless by her invitation to write the short foreword for the book, the first time I've ever agreed to do this. She's a caring, generous, magical person, a teacher with a special voice, one worth listening to.
Why buy a book about failing? Because success is easier to deal with and you're probably doing fine with that. Because your narrative about failing is keeping you from succeeding. And because you will have far more chances to fail than you know what to do with…
PS if you sign up this week, at this link, Sounds True will give you a seven-hour audio from Pema as well.
Also, Brene Brown's new book is out. Which is always a special occasion.